The South African Site For One Night Stands
Not everyone is chasing a ring and a joint bond. Plenty of grown ups just want a good night with someone who wants the exact same thing, no strings and no awkward breakfast the next morning. OneNightStandSite is built for those people, the South Africans who already know what they are after and would sooner say it plainly than tiptoe around it for weeks.
Most of our members are single, though a few are attached and simply after a bit of discreet fun, so be respectful and keep things private when you meet. The one thing everyone here shares is honesty. Nobody is pretending they want a wedding in Stellenbosch. They want a one night stand, a casual meet, a bit of no strings sex, and they are happy to be up front about it.
The old way of meeting someone for a one night stand meant a loud club, a good deal of luck and a fair amount of Dutch courage. It seldom went to plan. Online it is far simpler. You can see who is nearby, read what they want and start a conversation before you have spent a cent. From Johannesburg to Cape Town, Durban to Pretoria, the members are real, they are local and they are online right now.
Casual sex gets a rough name from people who have never really given it a proper go. Handled well, between two adults who are clear about what they want, it is fun, it is honest and it hurts nobody. There are no mind games, no waiting three days to reply and no wondering where it is heading, because everyone already knows where it is heading. That is rather the whole idea.
To give you the best chance of clicking with someone, we have made it easy to search by area and by what you actually want, whether that is a one off, a regular fuck buddy or something a little more open ended. Start a conversation, keep it discreet and take it at your own pace.
Why wait? Join free now and meet local members who want a no strings night as much as you do.